How will autism affect my child?
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a condition related to brain development that impacts how a child perceives and socializes with others, causing problems in social interaction and communication. The disorder also includes limited and repetitive patterns of behavior. The term “spectrum” in autism spectrum disorder refers to the wide range of symptoms and severity.
Table of Contents
- An autism diagnosis and its impact on your child
- Your Child’s Autism: Key Factors & Considerations
- Autism and my child’s challenging behaviors
- Your child’s signs and symptoms of autism
- How LeafWing Center Can Help Your Child Thrive
Autism affects every child differently, and, while cases of Autism may be similar, no two cases are ever the same. Some children with Autism may be mildly or moderately impacted while others may be profoundly impacted. Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy is a type of therapy that can improve social, communication, and learning skills through positive reinforcement of those children diagnosed with Autism. Most experts consider ABA to be the gold-standard treatment for children with autism spectrum disorder. The professional ABA therapists at LeafWing Center will provide you and your child with the support and therapy required to ensure your child is receiving the highest quality Autism care.
An autism diagnosis and its impact on your child
An autism diagnosis can affect various aspects of your child’s development, and it’s important to remember that every child is unique—no two experiences with autism are exactly alike. However, there are several key areas where differences or challenges may commonly appear.
These may include:
- Communication: Children with autism may have difficulty expressing their needs, understanding language, or using nonverbal communication like gestures and facial expressions.
- Socialization: Building relationships, understanding social cues, and engaging in typical peer interactions can be more challenging.
- Daily Living Skills: Activities such as dressing, brushing teeth, or transitioning between tasks may require additional support or structure.
- Motor Skills: Fine and gross motor skills—such as holding a pencil or riding a bike—can sometimes be delayed or develop differently.
- Executive Functioning: Skills like planning, organizing, and managing time may be harder to develop and maintain.
- Emotional Regulation: Children may experience difficulty managing big emotions, which can lead to outbursts or seemingly unpredictable behaviors.
- Play Skills: Engaging in imaginative play or playing cooperatively with peers may be less intuitive and require guidance or modeling.
You might also notice behaviors such as frequent tantrums, resistance to changes in routine, or trouble maintaining attention. These are not just “problem behaviors”—they are often a child’s way of expressing needs or coping with overwhelming situations.
It’s important to approach these challenges with empathy and to remember that early intervention, personalized support, and the right resources can make a profound difference. With consistent encouragement and understanding, children with autism can grow, learn, and thrive in meaningful ways.
Your Child’s Autism: Key Factors & Considerations
Beyond the core autism diagnosis, several critical factors influence how autism will affect your child’s development and daily life. Understanding these elements can help you advocate for the right support and maximize long-term outcomes.
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- Timing & Accessibility of Intervention
- Early Intervention: Research shows that beginning autism treatment before age 3–4 dramatically improves communication, social, and adaptive skills.
- Access to Services: Proximity to qualified providers, insurance coverage, and program waitlists can all impact how quickly your child receives Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy, speech-language therapy, or occupational therapy.
- Individual Profile of Strengths & Challenges
- Developmental Domains: Autism can affect motor skills (e.g., fine/gross motor delays), play skills (parallel or imaginative play), and executive function (planning, task-shifting).
- Behavioral Presentation: Some children experience mild to moderate skill gaps and occasional tantrums. Others may have limited verbal speech or display aggressive, self-injurious, or other challenging behaviors.
- Co-occurring Issues: Sleep disturbances, feeding aversions, and toileting delays are common and must be addressed alongside core autism goals.
- Environment & Supports
- School Placement: Inclusive classrooms, specialized autism programs, and resource rooms each offer different levels of support—choose based on your child’s communication and sensory needs.
- Family & Community Resources: Parent training, support groups, adaptive recreation, and assistive-technology access (e.g., PECS, AAC devices) bolster progress outside of therapy hours.
- The Role of Individualized ABA Therapy
- Timing & Accessibility of Intervention
A high-quality, ethical ABA program is fully personalized:
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- Custom Goals: Tailored to your child’s unique profile, from building functional communication (vocal language, sign language, PECS) to reducing challenging behaviors.
- Communication Focus: Since many challenging behaviors stem from “communication frustration,” ABA interventions often prioritize teaching effective ways to express wants and needs.
- Data-Driven: Progress is tracked using measurable objectives to ensure continual gains and guide adjustments.
Why ABA Therapy Works
ABA therapy uses evidence-based strategies—like discrete-trial training, natural environment teaching, and positive reinforcement—to promote lasting behavior change. Regardless of whether your child has mild language delays or more significant communication barriers, ABA can help unlock new skills and reduce problem behaviors, setting the stage for greater independence and quality of life.
Autism and my child’s challenging behaviors
One of the key ways ABA therapy is effective for children with autism is through the identification and treatment of challenging behaviors. Early in the therapy process, effective ABA programs carefully assess and pinpoint undesirable behaviors to better understand their causes and functions.
The purpose of identifying challenging behaviors is to develop a comprehensive Behavior Intervention Plan (BIP) tailored specifically to your child’s needs. A well-designed BIP uses research-backed strategies to reduce unwanted behaviors while promoting positive change.
An important part of the BIP is the introduction of replacement behaviors—these are socially appropriate actions that serve the same purpose as the challenging behavior but are easier and more acceptable for the child to use. For example, if a child exhibits aggressive behavior to avoid a difficult task, ABA therapy might teach them to request a break or ask for help instead.
By focusing on the assessment and treatment of challenging behaviors, ABA therapy helps children with autism build new skills, improve communication, and engage more positively with their environment.
Challenging behaviors
A child or adult with autism spectrum disorder may have limited, repetitive patterns of behavior, interests or activities, including any of these indicators:
- Performs repetitive movements, such as rocking, spinning or hand flapping
- Performs activities that could cause self-harm, such as biting or head-banging
- Develops specific routines or rituals and becomes disturbed at the slightest change
- Has problems with coordination or has odd movement patterns, such as clumsiness or walking on toes, and has odd, stiff or exaggerated body language
- Is fascinated by details of an object, such as the spinning wheels of a toy car, but doesn’t understand the overall purpose or function of the object
- Is unusually sensitive to light, sound, or touch, yet may be indifferent to pain or temperature
- Doesn’t engage in imitative or make-believe play
- Fixates on an object or activity with abnormal intensity or focus
- Has specific food preferences, such as eating only a few foods, or refusing foods with a certain texture
Your child’s signs and symptoms of autism
There is often nothing about how a child with Autism looks that distinguishes them from people without an ASD diagnosis. A child with Autism Spectrum Disorder, however, may communicate, interact, behave, and learn in ways that are drastically different from most other people. The learning, thinking, and problem-solving abilities of people with ASD can range from gifted to severely challenged. Some people with ASD require significant help in their daily lives; others need less.
Signs and Symptoms
A child with Autism often has problems with social, emotional, and communication skills. They might repeat certain behaviors and might be resistant to change in their daily routine. Many people with ASD also have different ways of learning, paying attention, or reacting to things. ABA therapy is used as a method of treatment to improve or change certain behaviors. Signs of ASD begin during early childhood and typically last throughout a person’s life.
A Child with Autism might:
- not point at objects to show interest (for example, not point at an airplane flying over)
- not look at objects when another person points at them
- have trouble relating to others or not have an interest in other people at all
- avoid eye contact and want to be alone
- have trouble understanding other people’s feelings or talking about their own feelings
- prefer not to be held or cuddled, or might cuddle only when they want
- appear to be unresponsive when people talk to them but respond to other sounds
- be very interested in people, but not know how to talk, play, or relate to them
- repeat or echo words or phrases said to them, or repeat words or phrases in place of normal language
- have trouble expressing their needs using typical words or motions
- not play “pretend” games (for example, not pretend to “feed” a doll)
- repeat actions over and over again
- have trouble adapting when a routine changes
- have unusual reactions to the way things smell, taste, look, feel, or sound
- lose skills they once had (for example, stop saying words they were using)
How LeafWing Center Can Help Your Child Thrive
At LeafWing Center, we understand that every child with autism is unique—and so is their journey. Our team is committed to providing compassionate, research-backed Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy that is individually tailored to meet your child’s specific needs. Whether your child is experiencing challenges with communication, behavior, socialization, or daily living skills, our therapists work closely with families to create meaningful, measurable progress.
With early, consistent intervention and a supportive environment, children with autism can gain the tools they need to thrive—both now and in the future. At LeafWing, we offer:
- Comprehensive ABA therapy programs
- Individualized treatment plans based on ongoing assessments
- Parent training and collaboration to support learning at home
- Experienced and credentialed clinicians who care deeply about your child’s success
We’re here to walk with you every step of the way, helping your child build confidence, develop essential skills, and reach their fullest potential. If you’re ready to take the next step in your child’s development, contact us today to learn more about our ABA services and how we can help.
Related Glossary Terms
- Autism Spectrum Disorders
- Discrete Trial Training
- Escape Contingency
- Extinction Burst
- Positive Reinforcement
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Frequently asked questions about ABA therapy
What is ABA Therapy used for?
ABA-based therapy can be used in a multitude of areas. Currently, these interventions are used primarily with individuals living with ASD; however, their applications can be used with individuals living with pervasive developmental disorders as well as other disorders. For ASD, it can be used in effectively teaching specific skills that may not be in a child’s repertoire of skills to help him/her function better in their environment whether that be at home, school, or out in the community. In conjunction with skill acquisition programs, ABA-based interventions can also be used in addressing behavioral excesses (e.g., tantrum behaviors, aggressive behaviors, self-injurious behaviors). Lastly, it can also be utilized in parent/caregiver training.
In skill acquisition programs, a child’s repertoire of skills is assessed in the beginning phase of the services in key adaptive areas such as communication/language, self-help, social skills, and motor skills as well. Once skills to be taught are identified, a goal for each skill is developed and then addressed/taught by using ABA-based techniques to teach those important skills. Ultimately, an ABA-based therapy will facilitate a degree of maintenance (i.e., the child can still perform the learned behaviors in the absence of training/intervention over time) and generalization (i.e., the learned behaviors are observed to occur in situations different from the instructional setting). These two concepts are very important in any ABA-based intervention.
In behavior management, the challenging behaviors are assessed for their function in the beginning phase of the services. In this phase, the “why does this behavior happen in the first place?” is determined. Once known, an ABA-based therapy will be developed to not just decrease the occurrence of the behavior being addressed, but also teach the child a functionally-equivalent behavior that is socially-appropriate. For example, if a child resorts to tantrum behaviors when she is told she cannot have a specific item, she may be taught to accept an alternative or find an alternative for herself. Of course, we can only do this up to a certain point—the offering of alternatives. There comes a point when a ‘no’ means ‘no’ so the tantrum behavior will be left to run its course (i.e., to continue until it ceases). This is never easy and will take some time for parents/caregivers to get used to, but research has shown that over time and consistent application of an ABA-based behavior management program, the challenging behavior will get better.
In parent training, individuals that provide care for a child may receive customized “curriculum” that best fit their situation. A typical area covered in parent training is teaching responsible adults pertinent ABA-based concepts to help adults understand the rationale behind interventions that are being used in their child’s ABA-based services. Another area covered in parent training is teaching adults specific skill acquisition programs and/or behavior management programs that they will implement during family time. Other areas covered in parent training may be data collection, how to facilitate maintenance, how to facilitate generalization of learned skills to name a few.
There is no “one format” that will fit all children and their families’ needs. The ABA professionals you’re currently working with, with your participation, will develop an ABA-based treatment package that will best fit your child’s and your family’s needs. For more information regarding this topic, we encourage you to speak with your BCBA or reach out to us at info@leafwingcenter.org.
Who Can Benefit From ABA Therapy?
There is a common misconception that the principles of ABA are specific to Autism. This is not the case. The principles and methods of ABA are scientifically backed and can be applied to any individual. With that said, the U.S. Surgeon General and the American Psychological Association consider ABA to be an evidence based practice. Forty years of extensive literature have documented ABA therapy as an effective and successful practice to reduce problem behavior and increase skills for individuals with intellectual disabilities and Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). Children, teenagers, and adults with ASD can benefit from ABA therapy. Especially when started early, ABA therapy can benefit individuals by targeting challenging behaviors, attention skills, play skills, communication, motor, social, and other skills. Individuals with other developmental challenges such as ADHD or intellectual disability can benefit from ABA therapy as well. While early intervention has been demonstrated to lead to more significant treatment outcomes, there is no specific age at which ABA therapy ceases to be helpful.
Additionally, parents and caregivers of individuals living with ASD can also benefit from the principles of ABA. Depending on the needs of your loved one, the use of specified ABA techniques in addition to 1:1 services, may help produce more desirable treatment outcomes. The term “caregiver training” is common in ABA services and refers to the individualized instruction that a BCBA or ABA Supervisor provides to parents and caregivers. This typically involves a combination of individualized ABA techniques and methods parents and caregivers can use outside of 1:1 sessions to facilitate ongoing progress in specified areas.
ABA therapy can help people living with ASD, intellectual disability, and other developmental challenges achieve their goals and live higher quality lives.
What does ABA Therapy look like?
Agencies that provide ABA-based services in the home-setting are more likely to implement ABA services similarly than doing the same exact protocols or procedures. Regardless, an ABA agency under the guidance of a Board-Certified Behavior Analyst follows the same research-based theories to guide treatment that all other acceptable ABA agencies use.
ABA-based services start with a functional behavior assessment (FBA). In a nutshell, a FBA assesses why the behaviors may be happening in the first place. From there, the FBA will also determine the best way to address the difficulties using tactics that have been proven effective over time with a focus on behavioral replacement versus simple elimination of a problem behavior. The FBA will also have recommendations for other relevant skills/behaviors to be taught and parent skills that can be taught in a parent training format to name a few. From there, the intensity of the ABA-based services is determined, again, based on the clinical needs of your child. The completed FBA is then submitted to the funding source for approval.
One-on-one sessions between a behavior technician and your child will start once services are approved. The duration per session and the frequency of these sessions per week/month will all depend on how many hours your child’s ABA services have been approved for—usually, this will be the number recommended in the FBA. The sessions are used to teach identified skills/behaviors via effective teaching procedures. Another aspect of ABA-based services in the home-setting is parent training. Parent training can take many forms depending on what goals have been established during the FBA process. The number of hours dedicated for parent training is also variable and solely depends on the clinical need for it. If a 1:1 session is between a behavior technician and your child, a parent training session or appointment is between you and the case supervisor and with and without your child present, depending on the parent goal(s) identified. Parent training service’s goal is for you to be able to have ample skills/knowledge in order for you to become more effective in addressing behavioral difficulties as they occur outside of scheduled ABA sessions. Depending on the goals established, you may be required to participate in your child’s 1:1 sessions. These participations are a good way for you to practice what you have learned from the case supervisor while at the same time, having the behavior technician available to you to give you feedback as you practice on those new skills.
As mentioned in the beginning, no two ABA agencies will do the same exact thing when it comes to providing ABA services; however, good agencies will always base their practice on the same empirically-proven procedures.
How do I start ABA Therapy?
In most cases, the first item required to start ABA therapy is the individual’s autism spectrum disorder (ASD) diagnosis report. This is typically conducted by a doctor such as a psychiatrist, psychologist, or a developmental pediatrician. Most ABA therapy agencies and insurance companies will ask for a copy of this diagnosis report during the intake process as it is required to request an ABA assessment authorization from the individual’s medical insurance provider.
The second item required to start ABA therapy is a funding source. In the United States, and in cases where Medi-Cal or Medicare insurances are involved, there is a legal requirement for ABA services to be covered when there is a medical necessity (ASD diagnosis). Medi-Cal and Medicare cover all medically necessary behavioral health treatment services for beneficiaries. This typically includes children diagnosed with ASD. Since Applied Behavior Analysis is an evidence based and effective treatment for individuals with ASD, it is considered a covered treatment when medically necessary. In many cases, private insurance will also cover ABA services when medically necessary, however in these cases, it is best to speak directly with your medical insurance provider to determine the specifics of the coverage and to ensure that ABA is in fact, a covered benefit. Additionally, some families opt to pay for ABA services out-of-pocket.
The next step to starting ABA therapy is to contact an ABA provider whom you are interested in working with. Depending on your geographic location, ABA agencies exist in many cities across the United States. Your insurance carrier, local support groups, and even a thorough online search can help you find reputable and properly credentialed ABA agencies near you. Our organization, LeafWing Center, is based in southern California and is recognized for aiding people with ASD achieve their goals with the research based on applied behavior analysis.
Once you have identified the ABA provider with whom you wish to work, they should help you facilitate the next steps. These will include facilitating paperwork and authorizations with your funding source. Once the assessment process begins, a BCBA (Board Certified Behavior Analyst) or qualified Program Supervisor should get in contact with you to arrange times in which interviews with parents/caregivers and observations of your loved one can be conducted. This will help in the process of gathering important clinical information so that with your collaboration, the most effective treatment plans and goals can be established for your loved one. This process is referred to as the Functional Behavior Assessment (FBA) and is elaborated on in different blog posts on our website. With regard as to what can be expected once ABA therapy begins, please read our blog post titled: When You Start an ABA program, What Should You Reasonably Expect from Your Service Provider?